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Quiet Confidence: How Attractive And Effective It Is

Quiet Confidence is strait exhibited by people who have self confidence without making a fuss about it. Read more about the trait of quiet confidence

Quiet Confidence: Its Attraction

Quiet Confidence

Quiet confidence is one of the most adorned and sought for traits among people. It is clearly the unadulterated trust, belief in oneself. In other words, self confidence is the opposite of inferiority complex— a feeling of doubt or subjectiveness. Thus, in respect of these article, we are going to consider some basic traits of quiet confidence, it's attraction and effectiveness.

Due to how effective quiet confidence is in building individuals personality, it attracts attention as such persons are considered as those who knows what to do and how to achieve their goals without making a huge fuss about it.

 However, quite confidence shouldn't be mistaken for uncompromising, egoistic, loud, and ignorant— that is, arrogance.

You have a quiet confidence that helps you deal with even the moodiest of people and get your plans working. —The Sun (2009)

Some of the Basic Traits Of Self Confidence

  • Be humble

Humility is one of the foremost perceived trait of quiet confidence. Although, in a plainer view, most people consider those who are humble to be less confident. This has however proven to be the opposite. People with quiet Confidence are proven to have high self esteem and self worth such that they prefer not to brag. Such individuals with quiet confidence would rather prefer speaking through their actions rather than words.

Also, your reactions towards complement could also depicts your trait of quiet confidence.

  • Learn to accept your mistakes. 

Avoid confining yourself to the act of running away from your mistakes, be it big or small.

 Generally, all human are infallible, we make mistakes and thus, it becomes our responsibility to own and correct them. Doing this doesn't actually make us less human, or less confident.

 Thus, one of the best ways to earn respect and build confidence is by going over this bridge.

  • Listen to understand. 

This can be comprehensively denoted from the quote of Larry King which goes thus:

"I remind myself every morning: Nothing I say this day will teach me anything. So if I’m going to learn, I must do it by listening."
―Larry King
Listening is not restricted to the sole purpose of response. It's also the most effective way of learning, understanding others opinions and making use out of it. You shouldn't listen to argue. There is confidence in being patient enough to listen to what the other person is saying. Thus, speak only when you think that your point will make a difference.

To develop and maintain quiet confidence, get into a habit of listening and understanding others. 

  • Quiet confidence is also exhibited by looking others in the eyes while speaking.

 This is a theory that has been proven overtime, and thus a trait that it is often found in those with confidence.

Thus, looking other person in the eyes while talking shows that you're comfortable and at ease with yourself and others. And this depicts, self-assurance or reliance. Practising eye contact could help you to become less anxious and more confident while interacting with others. 

  • Accustom yourself with the trait of being contented and peaceful with yourself.

This is another trait of quiet confidence that brings a sense of calmness and peacefulness. People who are secured and confident in their abilities are easily motivated and peaceful within themselves. Such trait can be exhibited through interactions, relations etc. Such people are able to at least gain control of their environment. To maintain your inner peace, you can learn to meditate, enjoy and spend more time in nature, write down your thoughts in journals and learn to enjoy the flow of your environment

"Peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be."

—Wayne W. Dye

  • Be Aware Of Your Emotions.

A person with quiet confidence is often aware of their emotions and their impacts to others. This you can learn by voicing your opinions without disrespecting others. Having the quality to respect others opinion shows that you have a lot of belief and trust in yourself. This equally produce good relationship among others.

Thus, being quiet confident does not mean being arrogant or egoist in a way that shows dominance.

  • Have a sense of self-awareness

Know your strength and your weakness, the ability to adapt to situations and make productive use of it. It also take quiet confidence for someone to not feel insecured or think highly of themselves. Thus, a person with quiet confidence won't need to compare themselves with others but rather accepting that everyone has his or her own path in life.

Thus, this quality of quiet confidence shows that you don't need validation from others to know worth.

In summary, as curled from Advisorpedia, you have “quiet confidence” when:

  1. You approach your role with an organized and focused “get it done now” sense of urgency, keeping everything as simple as possible
  2. You focus on the outcome, not just the tasks or “to do’s”
  3. You know how to evaluate risk
  4. You ignore negative feedback based solely upon negative opinions lacking any constructive alternatives
  5. You don’t worry about things you cannot control; you focus on what you can influence or direct and you stay in the moment

Benefits Of Quiet Confidence

People with quiet confidence are respected for who they are.

Those with quiet Confidence possesses positive energy and this draws others closer to them.
It is easy to maintain relationship with quite confident people as it makes others feel comfortable around them.

Attractiveness Of Quiet Confidence

Quite confident people exude an energy of self-awareness, self-assurance and strength which is attractive to others. Clearly, being quite doesn't mean one is insecured or shy. It shows that you're convenient in your skin.

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